Valence

Privacy Policy

Last updated: October 2, 2026

In short: Valence stores your onboarding answers, the events you log about your ex, your readings and your conversations with the coach, on your device and on our server. They are kept until you delete them with Settings → Delete my data, which removes them from our server immediately. Screenshots and voice notes are used to produce a reply and are not kept. We don't sell your data and we don't show ads in the app.

1. Who is responsible

Valence is made by an individual developer based in Istanbul, Turkey. The data controller is:

Furkan Dogan
Email: info@thevalence.app

2. What we store

When you first open the app, it creates an anonymous ID. There is no sign-up, email or phone number. The data below is linked to that anonymous ID.

On our server (Google Firebase, Cloud Firestore)

On your device

The same readings, events and conversation history, and your app settings.

What we don't keep or collect

3. Why we store it

We don't sell your data, and we don't use your conversations, notes or readings for advertising.

4. How long we keep it, and how to delete it

Your conversations and readings are kept until you delete them in Settings.

Settings → Delete my data removes immediately, from our server: your record, your conversations, your logged events and readings, your notification tokens and any scheduled notifications. It also clears them from your device. A record of when your free trial started stays on your device, so the trial can't be used twice.

Deleting the app removes the data on your device but not the data on our server. Use Delete my data before you delete the app, or email us.

Delete my data does not reach the services listed in section 6 (for example analytics, crash reports, advertising measurement and billing records). To have that data deleted, email info@thevalence.app with the subject "Delete my data". We complete these requests within 30 days. Billing records are kept by Apple, Google and RevenueCat under their own retention rules.

5. How the AI works with your data

Readings and coach replies are written by an AI model. To produce them, your messages, screenshots and voice notes, together with the context the coach needs (your ex's phase, the day count, your onboarding answers, the events and notes you logged, and the coach's summary of your story), are sent through our own relay server (Cloudflare Workers) to Google Gemini. Google processes this data under the Gemini API Terms and the Google Privacy Policy.

The AI's readings are patterns, not certainties, and they are not professional advice. If a message contains words about hurting yourself, the app shows crisis resources instead of coaching.

6. Services we use

7. Advertising measurement (AppsFlyer)

We advertise Valence and use AppsFlyer to see which of our own campaigns bring people to the app. For this, AppsFlyer may receive:

AppsFlyer may report installs and subscription events back to the ad platform that ran the campaign, as part of that measurement. This data is used only to measure our own advertising. Your conversations, notes, readings, onboarding answers, screenshots and voice notes are never shared with advertising partners.

Your choice: on iPhone you can decline the tracking prompt; then the IDFA is not used and Apple's SKAdNetwork gives us only aggregate campaign results. You can change this anytime in Settings → Privacy & Security → Tracking. On Android, you can reset or delete your Advertising ID in Settings → Google → Ads.

8. What we don't do

9. Security

All connections use HTTPS. On our server, each record can be read and written only by the anonymous ID it belongs to. On your device, your data is protected by your phone's own security; we recommend a passcode or biometric lock.

10. Children

Valence is intended for people aged 13 and older. We don't knowingly collect data from children under 13. If you believe a child under 13 has used the app, contact us and we will delete the data.

11. Your rights (KVKK / GDPR)

If you are in Turkey, the European Economic Area or the UK, you have the right to:

To use any of these rights, email info@thevalence.app.

12. Data breach

If a data breach affects your data, we will notify you as required by law, by updating this page and, where possible, in the app.

13. Changes to this policy

We may update this policy. Changes appear on this page with a new date. If a change is significant, we will also tell you in the app.

14. Contact

Questions about this policy or your data: info@thevalence.app